A Meeting with Chen Kaige

January 6, 2000

It just so happened that the program on independent film produced by my company would be featuring an interview with this giant of world cinema. I gladly volunteered to stay the evening and help around with the taping, if only to have an opportunity to shake hands with Mr. Chen -- and perhaps speak with him -- and perhaps have a photo taken with him -- and perhaps...

I told my mother a couple days in advance that he would be at my station, if only to show that being a lowly assistant at a public TV station had its perks.  After all, not everyone can make millions at an internet startup -- to her disappointment, I'm not "not everyone".  The first time I told her about our special guest she reacted with disbelief -- however by the next day she was wondering if she should invite one of her friends along to meet the guy.  From there it was all a matter of figuring out transportation, since she the thought of driving into the city at night scared her.

It was agreed that at 7:30 I would pick up my mother at the 16th and Mission BART station, not a safe place to be at night.  At 7:30 I headed out of the building -- on the way out I ran into a towering Chinese man being led through the front door.  I introduced myself to Mr. Chen, showed him to the elevator, then raced to my car to get my mom.  I found her wandering in the wrong direction from the station, but unfazed by the loitering gangsters and winos pushing shopping carts around her. 

It was when we were back in the building that could notice in the light how she had made herself up for the occasion, and it pleased me that she felt energized and motivated to do that.  We entered the green room, where Chen was in make-up while his publicist waited.  I introduced myself and mom and made small talk until Chen emerged.  From there I was on -- in kind of the same way I have seen my boss catch fire in his eyes, voice and gestures when he starts talking to people about something he cares about passionately.  I milked my experiences in China for all they were worth to impress the man -- and it did impress him.  He kept remarking to my mother his pleasure that I had not forgotten my motherland and could still speak Chinese.  And of course, I talked all I could about movies, Chinese and otherwise.  

Alternately, I asked him so many questions that it seemed like I was warming him up for his on-air interview.  It was fascinating hearing some of his opinions (that he considers Hou Hsiao-Hsien a bit too slow for his liking) and his history (son of a filmmaker, reluctant to follow in his father's footsteps).  Aside from being tall, he has a reserved, composed face, and his English is very articulate, so much that I think he could do well in Hollywood.  Apparently his next film will be set in England.  He seems to have already set up a life in Los Angeles, where his wife and child were staying at the time.  In many ways he already has developed an American sensibility -- he had worked in New York for a short while in the early '90s.  There is nothing simple about well-accomplished Chinese people, especially Mainlanders -- the ones I know (a cousin in Shanghai originally from Taiwan by way of the U.S.; a classmate born in New York, now a pop star in Taiwan) seem strangely disassociated from any particular place, even though they may feel a strong attachment to their homeland.  What they are really attached to is family.

Mr. Chen was exceptionally kind to me in spending as much as a half hour in conversation before the studio was ready to tape him.  I suppose my mother and I kept him entertained while he waited.  At the end I took out my camera and took a few pictures of him -- only later did I realize that no film had been loaded... Then he kindly offered me his fax number to contact him if I ever wanted to meet him in L.A.  His publicist offered to give us free passes to The Emperor and the Assassin.  It was a very successful evening indeed.

But most importantly for me was that my mom got to witness all of this.  She got to see me in my environment, talking happily and engagingly with a Chinese celebrity she can now boast to others about having met.   She was in a good mood for days -- though eventually she would ask me if I was going to give up the pipe dream of filmmaking and join an internet company.  I don't know what I need to do to convince her now -- there's nothing to be done, I suppose.  But at least now I can refer back to this evening and remember how great I felt, how large I felt in the presence of a great filmmaker, and capable of someday also doing something great.

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